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Preparations for Birth

Do I need classes?
Dr. Richard Valentine OBGYN Medical Practice
Between your 20th and 28th week of pregnancy, you should be making phone calls and enrolling in childbirth education classes – the earlier you call, the more likely you are to get the class you want that suits your schedule and desires. We strongly recommend them for all first time mothers and if you are a repeat mother with a first-time dad. Birthworks® is a great program for everyone regardless of previous experience. Since birth is affected by basic instincts, intuition and the subconscious mind, it is extremely beneficial for each woman to learn how to manipulate the mind-over-labor process.

“I’m planning to have an epidural!” While natural childbirth is triumphant, we support each woman in her right to choose
pain medication during birth because the true victory lies in having a satisfying experience and a healthy baby. However, because early labor relies on maternal effort alone and pain medication provides varying degrees of relief depending on the individual, we still recommend preparation for natural childbirth as these methods can bridge the gap where pain medication may leave you hanging, thereby preventing fear on your behalf. Who knows? You may surprise yourself with your inner strength once you know how to harness it!

Recommended providers:

Claudia Souther provides her own eclectic blend of childbirth preparation including the use of herbal therapies. She is also available for doula services. Classes are every Tuesday evening for 6 weeks.  Start dates for 2008 are:  August 5, September 23, and November 11.  Contact her at (757) 547-4451 or cksouther@cox.net

Terri Hewitt teaches the remarkable method of hypnobirthing and is available to serve her clients as a doula. (757) 460-4318

Kathy Hubbard is the only provider of Birthworks® classes in the area, which is a wonderful opportunity for families early in pregnancy or even before pregnancy. (757) 631-0952  Next class starting September 7th!

Sentara Women’s Health Source has a variety of wonderful classes and tours available.
Have you looked through the book we gave you at your first visit? Visit their web site and check it out or call (757) 282-4000. Classes for Dads are also offered at Senatara Women’s Health Source.

Should I write a birth plan?

We would prefer you not write a birth plan since labor and birth follow unpredictable paths for which no amount of planning can encompass. We believe that the labor will lead you and the plan develops along the way. Rest assured you will be given options throughout your labor to make decisions in your care depending on the current situation. If you have specific interventions you strongly desire to use or avoid, we encourage you to talk to us about these during your prenatal visits.

What should I pack for the hospital and when?

You should pack your bag when you are 36-37 weeks pregnant. Remember, you will only be in the hospital for 1-3 days and basic needs are provided at the hospital such as: diapers, pads, “underwear”, gowns, baby t-shirts, blankets, etc… You should be able to fit all of your things in one small bag:

• Robe
• Gown or pajamas (optional)
• Slippers
• Baby outfit for pictures (this could double as the going-home outfit)
• Baby book or diary (optional)
• Toiletries – leave a list of necessary items on your bag until it’s time to do last-minute packing

• Extra pillows (try not to use white pillowcases)

• Camera - if 35mm, make sure you have film - for digital, make sure you have batteries, charge, enough room to add pictures or extra memory card

You may want to include the location of last-minute items on your list as somebody else might be packing them for you. You are probably sleeping with more than the standard flat hospital pillow, so plan to bring some of those extra fluffy cushions with you! It is helpful if you use non-white pillowcases in order to avoid accidentally leaving these treasures behind. Feel free to bring CDs and a portable player or MP3 player system if you’d like to listen to your own music during labor. If you’ve made a rice sock, you may wish to bring that, too.

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