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Postpartum Instructions for Mothers Dr. Richard Valentine OBGYN Medical Practice
This information is to be used as a guideline for mothers and families, to assist in caring for themselves and their newborns. Follow these instructions unless otherwise instructed by your primary care provider:

Now is the ideal time to really sit back and concentrate on taking care of yourself and bonding with your baby. We strongly encourage you to stay home for the first two weeks and to keep your baby home and away from crowds for a good 30 days. The exception to this limitation for both of you is the trip to the pediatrician’s office. During the postpartum period, you should sleep when your baby sleeps, avoid entertaining and set housework aside as much as possible. The purpose of this is to allow your body to heal and your baby’s immune system to develop before increasing stresses on both of you.

In order to speed and aid your recovery, do the following:
• Continue to drink 8 – 10 glasses of water per day
• Take your prenatal vitamin for at least six weeks and continue for the duration of breastfeeding (whichever is longer)
• Use a heating pad, rice sock, ibuprofen (Motrin) or acetaminophen (Tylenol) to relieve cramping
• Soothe swollen perineum or aid healing stitches by using warm sitz baths as often as possible
• Avoid lifting items less than 10 pounds or roughly the weight of your baby without the car seat
• Use abstinence for birth control and pads instead of tampons (nothing in the vagina)

* We will see you in the office six weeks after your baby’s birth (two weeks if you had a c-section). Call us if you experience any of the following:

• You soak two pads/ hour with blood. Clots are normal and may even be as large as a lemon
• Your vaginal discharge (or from abdominal incision if you had c-section) becomes foul-smelling
• You develop a temperature greater or equal to 100.4°F or generally feel like you have “the flu”Dr. Richard Valentine OBGYN Medical Practice

You may notice an increase in your general swelling. As alarming as it can sometimes be, you really will not explode! The cure is time, increased fluid, soaks in the bath and lying on your left side whenever possible. Your breasts will become engorged when your milk comes in 2-3 days after the baby is born and some women are quite uncomfortable until the body adjusts the milk supply. If this is the case, you may use cabbage leaves to temporarily ease your discomfort or dry up your milk if you plan to exclusively use formula. Please see our Breastfeeding page for more information.


The Baby Blues, Depression and Psychosis

“I have this healthy baby and things are going well – why can’t I stop crying?” You’re happy one moment, tearful the next, occasionally anxious or snappy because you have the postpartum or baby blues! You may feel better just knowing that the majority of women go through this adjustment period. These feelings become most intense in the first week and usually are completely resolved by the second week. As your body is making this rapid adjustment from term pregnancy to postpartum Mom, your mood swings will not affect bonding with or caring for your child.

“I don’t even want to get out of bed, I’m crying all of the time and I don’t want to take care of that baby.” Here you may be crossing the line from the blues to postpartum depression. If these feelings are not getting better at all after two weeks, you may need to give us a call. Take a moment and fill out the postpartum depression scale below. You may find it useful to repeat it in a week to see if your score is getting lower, signaling your blues may be lifting. But, if you have thoughts of harming the baby or yourself, we want you to call right away. Women who have a family or personal history of depression/ postpartum depression or are experiencing financial, relational or situational stresses are at increased risk for developing postpartum depression. We routinely screen for this at your six-week check and help you through this transition period.

“I hear voices telling me to harm myself or my baby. There is something wrong with that baby.” A very small minority of women experience postpartum psychosis which requires immediate treatment. It is more common in women who have had postpartum psychosis before or who have been diagnosed with a bipolar disorder. This condition usually presents in an abrupt onset within 2-3 days after the birth of the baby. It interferes with your ability to function normally, care for the baby and you may feel you and/or the baby are in danger from yourself or something else. This is an emergency situation in which you should call us for help right away.

Edinburgh Postnatal Depression Scale
Please mark the answer that comes closest to how you have felt overall during the past seven days, not just how you feel today.

IN THE PAST SEVEN DAYS:
1. I have been able to laugh and see the funny side of things:

a. As much as I ever did.
b. Not quite so much now.
c. Definitely not so much now.
d. Not at all.
2. I have looked forward with enjoyment to things:

a. As much as I ever did.
b. Rather less than I used to.
c. Definitely less than I used to.
d. Hardly at all.
3. I have blamed myself unnecessarily when things went wrong:

a. No, never.
b. Not very often.
c. Yes, some of the time.
d. Yes, most of the time.
4. I have felt worried and anxious without a very good reason:

a. No, not at all.
b. Hardly ever.
c. Yes, sometimes.
d. Yes, very often.
5. I have felt scared or panicky without a very good reason:

a. No, not at all.
b. No, not much.
c. Yes, sometimes.
d. Yes, quite a lot.
6. I have been feeling overwhelmed:

a. No; I have been coping as well as ever.
b. No; usually I have coped quite well.
c. Yes; sometimes I haven't been coping as well as usual.
d. Yes; most of the time I haven't been able to cope at all.
7. I have had difficulty sleeping even when the baby is asleep:

a. No, not at all.
b. Not very often.
c. Yes, sometimes.
d. Yes, most of the time.
8. I have felt sad or miserable:

a. No, not at all.
b. Not very often.
c. Yes, quite often.
d. Yes, most of the time.
9. I have been so unhappy that I have been crying, or fighting to keep from crying:

a. No, never.
b. Only occasionally.
c. Yes, quite often.
d. Yes, most of the time.
10. The thought of harming either myself or my baby has occurred to me:

a. Never.
b. Hardly ever.
c. Sometimes.
d. Yes, quite often.

Scoring:
a: 0 points | b: 1 point | c: 2 points | d: 3 points
0-8 points: low probability of depression
8-12 points: most likely just dealing with life with a new baby or a case of baby blues
13-14 points: signs leading to the possibility of postpartum depression; take preventive measures
15+ points: high probability of experiencing clinical postpartum depression
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